October 26, 2023

Shalom Chaverim (Dear Friends), This is now the third week that my Shabbat message comes to you while Israel is at war, and sadly, it seems that it will be some time before the situation is resolved. One thing that provides me comfort is the cooperative and collaborative spirit of our local Jewish agencies and organizations. This week I attended a meeting along with colleagues from our Jewish Federation of South Palm Beach County, Ruth & Norman Rales Jewish Family Services, and our Adolph & Rose Levis Jewish Community Center to discuss how we can come together to assist Israelis coming to our community to seek safety for their families. We discussed plans to work collaboratively to assist with housing and social services as well as educational and programmatic needs while they stay here with their Jewish family. I hope you find comfort in that as well.

October 19, 2023

Shalom Chaverim (Dear Friends), A friend of mine posted “what a year this week has been” on Facebook today. That really resonated with me. Like many of you, I have watched and listened to news reports with great concern about the events unfolding in our beloved Israel. I have spent my entire career working on behalf of the Jewish community and I can say with certainty that I have never been more concerned for Israel’s safety and the safety of Jewish people everywhere, than I am right now. The way that our community has come together in support of our extended Jewish family is a comfort, but there is so much sadness in our collective heart right now. It is at times like these when I reflect on the power of community as a source of light in dark and troubling times.

October 12, 2023

Shalom Chaverim (Dear Friends), This Shabbat message is like no other I have ever written. As the reality of what happened in Israel this past weekend unravels on news broadcasts and social media each day, I know so many of us are grappling with many emotions. We are worried for our dear families and friends in Israel. The shock is giving way to deep sadness for many of us. Our entire community joins Jews everywhere in unwavering solidarity and support for our brothers and sisters in Israel. We pray for a swift end to this war.

October 5, 2023

Shalom Chaverim (Dear Friends), I’m writing this week’s Shabbat message to you from Aruba, where Lori and I are enjoying the celebrations of Sukkot and our 35th wedding anniversary. Having not visited in over 3 decades, it is really lovely to be back here together.

September 28, 2023

Shalom Chaverim (Dear Friends), The holiday of Sukkot, also known as the Feast of Tabernacles or booths, is coming up this weekend. Sukkot is rooted in the harvest and is one of the three Jewish Pilgrimage holidays. This year, my wife Lori and I will be making a sort of pilgrimage of our own. To celebrate our upcoming 35th wedding anniversary, we will be returning to the beautiful spot where we honeymooned all those years ago. I am ever so grateful to Lori for her endless love and support as we raised our family and built our lives together in five different communities over the past 35 years.

September 21, 2023

Shalom Chaverim (Dear Friends), With the conclusion of Rosh Hashanah, we are now in the midst of the Asseret Yemai Teshuva, the ten days of awe. I find it so interesting that according to Jewish tradition, we can make our peace with our creator relatively easily through prayer and sincere introspection and acknowledgement of our sins. The more difficult task before Yom Kippur is seeking out the humans who we believe we have wronged. We need ask them to forgive us and, according to tradition, are required to do so up to 3 times if necessary before we are absolved of our sins. Following this tradition, I take this moment to ask each of you, if I have wronged you in any way, knowingly or unknowingly, for forgiveness. I am sincerely sorry.

September 14, 2023

Shalom Chaverim (Dear Friends), We are at the end of the Jewish Year 5783. As we join Jews around the world in observance of Rosh Hashanah this weekend, it is really quite incredible that this is the second year of High Holidays that my wife Lori and I will celebrate in South Palm Beach County. We have made new friends, turned our house into our home, created roots in our community, and enjoyed our rewarding careers. We are grateful for the many joys our children and grandchildren bring, and remain grateful for the blessings of continued good health. It is a wonderful way to begin a new year.

September 7, 2023

Shalom Chaverim (Dear Friends), With a beautiful Labor Day weekend behind us, many of us are beginning to prepare for the Jewish High Holidays. Before we joyously celebrate the Jewish New Year, though, we will collectively mark the somber anniversary of September 11th. In so many ways, we lost our innocence on that day, and our lives have really never been the same since. On a personal note, my daughter turns 30 this September 11th and each year, this date reminds me that even during the most difficult moments, rays of beautiful sunshine can be found.

August 31, 2023

Shalom Chaverim (Dear Friends), As I write this week’s Shabbat message, Hurricane Idalia is rapidly intensifying as Floridians on the west coast brace for the storm’s landfall. Here in our community, we are fortunate that we will have minimal impact from this storm, and life moves on without the anxiety of last-minute storm preparations and long lines for gasoline and supplies. I’ll be keeping everyone in the storm’s path in my thoughts.

August 24, 2023

Shalom Chaverim (Dear Friends), Remarkably, this Shabbat message comes to you before the last Shabbat of August. September brings images of Labor Day, the Jewish High Holidays, school and a back to work mentality. For my wife Lori and me, it’s hard to comprehend that we are completing our second full summer here in South Palm Beach County and 15th year in Florida, having lived in Sarasota for 13 years. With that experience, we know all too well the countdown to early November when the weather breaks and Florida becomes the paradise everyone wants to be a part of.

August 17, 2023

Shalom Chaverim (Dear Friends), My wife Lori and I just returned home after a wonderful few days in Colorado where we enjoyed catching up with my brother and sister-in-law. Sometimes we all just need to get away, recharge our batteries and celebrate and acknowledge our blessings.

August 10, 2023

Shalom Chaverim (Dear Friends), By the time you receive this Shabbat Message, Lori and I will have arrived in Granby, Colorado to visit with my brother and sister in law at their beautiful home for the very first time. They have lived there for several years but with the great joy of visiting our adult children in their home cities, Lori and I have been unable to travel anywhere else. So this is really the first chance we will have had to really get away for a few days to truly unwind, certainly since we have arrived in Boca 16 months ago.

August 3, 2023

Shalom Chaverim (Dear Friends), As an avid Boston Red Sox fan and a lifelong fan of Major League Baseball generally, I am really excited to see all the wheeling and dealing that I anticipate occurring over the next few days. It’s a fun time for baseball fans! It’s also been a fun summer weekend of movie-going for many, and Lori and I joined opening weekend crowds to see Oppenheimer. What an impressive cast and important movie.

July 27, 2023

Shalom Chaverim (Dear Friends), As an avid Boston Red Sox fan and a lifelong fan of Major League Baseball generally, I am really excited to see all the wheeling and dealing that I anticipate occurring over the next few days. It’s a fun time for baseball fans! It’s also been a fun summer weekend of movie-going for many, and Lori and I joined opening weekend crowds to see Oppenheimer. What an impressive cast and important movie.

July 20, 2023

Shalom Chaverim (Dear Friends), Throughout this very hot and wet July, Lori and I have taken cover indoors, in the comfort of our AC. We just finished watching Daisy Jones & The Six, which we both enjoyed, and outside, I’ve spent time buying, transporting and laying rock in my back yard. I usually end up in the pool after working outside in this heat, and I’ve been getting back into a lap pool as well, which has been important for my body and my mind.

July 13, 2023

Shalom Chaverim (Dear Friends), I am writing this message to you on my 59th and a half birthday. According to life insurance companies, that makes me 60 years old! As I approach the big 6-0, I’m focused on many wonderful things ahead both personally and professionally. I’m looking forward to my first visit to my brother’s home in Colorado, and my son’s wedding in early April, to name just a few. I am very aware of and grateful for the blessings of these opportunities.

July 6, 2023

Shalom Chaverim (Dear Friends), I hope everyone enjoyed a great holiday – despite the excessive heat! To beat the heat, Lori and I have been spending many evenings binging “Ted Lasso” which we loved, and we just started “Shrinking.” It’s great to unwind and be immersed in an engaging story!

June 29, 2023

Shalom Chaverim (Dear Friends), We haven’t quite entered into July, yet I have heard some people are already beginning to make their plans for Rosh Hashanah. Sometimes it’s just nice to have something wonderful to look forward to. On a personal note, Lori and I are looking forward to our 35th wedding anniversary in early October. We are excited to be returning to the same beautiful spot where we had our honeymoon all those years ago. With our son Noah’s wedding this coming April, we feel truly fortunate to have so many wonderful blessings.

June 22, 2023

Shalom Chaverim (Dear Friends), I write this message to you on the first official day of summer – even though it has felt an awful lot like summer for some time now! One of the benefits to being in Florida in summer is the proximity to wonderful water-related recreational options. Twice this week I had the very good fortune to enjoy going boating, once on a beautiful motorboat and once on a sailboat. These opportunities don’t come up very often, so when they do, I really appreciate them. Out on the water, I once again experienced the joy I felt as a young boy when I did something exciting for the first time. I love that feeling, and I’ll bet most of you do as well!

June 15, 2023

Shalom Chaverim (Dear Friends), Reflecting on the trip to St. Louis Lori and I made this past weekend, it really was everything I had hoped it would be. What a joy to have 13 family members come together to visit our daughter, son-in-law, and of course, our granddaughter, Emi Lou. Most of this group of extended family met Emi Lou, who is now 13 months old, for the very first time, and seeing my mother hold her great granddaughter was just priceless!