December 22, 2022

Shalom Chaverim (Dear friends), You are receiving this week’s message as Jews all over the world collectively celebrate Chanukah. Lori and I have been enjoying a wonderful “Festival of Lights,” celebrating in person with recently arrived family, and virtually via FaceTime with our son, his fiancée Patricia, and her sweet young daughters who are delighting in learning about Chanukah for the first time. It is indeed a holiday of light and joy for us.

December 15, 2022

Shalom Chaverim (Dear friends), The weather here in South Florida has finally turned! My wife Lori and I are enjoying our newly updated outdoor “Zen room” and we really can’t wait for the completion of our swimming pool renovation. It’s been a pleasure for us to spend time with relatives and friends visiting this past week. It is such a busy time for all of us as the calendar year winds down.

December 8, 2022

Shalom Chaverim (Dear friends), I am writing this week’s message to you from my mom’s apartment in Forest Hills, Queens. I came in to assist her after she underwent her second cataract surgery. My brother Stefan, who was here to help her after the first one, our mother, and I are all so thankful everything went well with both procedures. Hopefully she will be seeing and reading much better. This experience makes me think about how fortunate we are to be living in a time where many matters of aging can be addressed, improving our quality of life.

December 1, 2022

Shalom Chaverim (Dear friends), You are receiving this week’s message on December 1st. I feel that this November flew by faster than any I can ever recall in the past, and it really was a great month with so much to be grateful for! On a personal note, when our son Noah was in town for a holiday visit with my wife Lori and me, we had the truly special experience of going together to select a beautiful engagement ring that he then took home and presented to his lovely fiancée, Patricia. We are so happy for them both! Lori and I are also really looking forward to the trip we will be making to visit our daughter Danielle and her husband Colin in St. Louis during New Year’s week. We just can’t wait to see our sweet granddaughter, Emi Lou!

November 24, 2022

Shalom Chaverim (Dear Friends), I’m excited to be writing this Shabbat message to you 3 days before Thanksgiving, which is when you will receive it. Noah, our 26 year old son, came in on Sunday and it’s been wonderful to once again fill our “empty nest” with the young man that we love so much. Along with Noah, we have been spending time with lifelong friends and we really are beginning to feel at home. Speaking of home, our renovations continue to progress with the pool deck now completed - next up the pool!

November 17, 2022

Shalom Chaverim (Dear Friends), As I write this Shabbat message to you, Lori and I are counting the days until our son comes to visit for the Thanksgiving holiday. We haven’t seen our youngest since July, and we really can’t wait to spend some time with him. Our sweet granddaughter Emi Lou is now 7 months old, hitting milestones including cutting her first 2 teeth! We continue to work on home improvements, and Lori and I both feel settled and very much a part of our warm community. This is a wonderful time to reflect with gratitude on all of the blessings we have in our lives.

November 10, 2022

Shalom Chaverim (Dear Friends), I am writing this week’s Shabbat Message to you on Election Day. Without getting particularly political, most of us are aware that our country has been split in half for quite a while now. The last several elections have been razor thin and the balance of power is as deadlocked as in any time I can recall in my 58 twirls around the sun. The outcome will be most interesting and will determine the direction our country is headed in at least for the next 2 years until the next presidential elections.

November 3, 2022

Shalom Chaverim (Dear Friends), Today is the first Thursday in November. That means that our seasonal chevre (friends) are returning to their second home. Welcome back! We missed you and are so glad you are back here. I just returned from New York, where I attended the very lovely and unique wedding of one of my cousins. Officiated by an Orthodox Rabbi, the ceremony was traditional and beautiful. As we gathered at Crest Hollow Country Club in Woodbury, Long Island amid spectacular fall foliage, we all looked on with joy and pride as two amazing young men stood under a gorgeous huppah (wedding canopy) and cemented their commitment to one another and to their Jewish heritage. It was a wonderful celebration of life and love, and I am honored to have been a part of it.

October 27, 2022

Shalom Chaverim (Dear Friends), You are receiving this message the night before the World Series. For baseball fans, the Houston Astros and Philadelphia Phillies should be a fun match up. It will surely be a bright spot in a week of disturbing headlines that include brazen antisemitism, bellicose rhetoric from the Kremlin, and a significant leadership shuffle in the United Kingdom. Here in the United States, we’re heading into mid-term elections, with early voting underway in our area. Election Day is coming up on Tuesday, November 8th. To paraphrase the well-known Chinese proverb, we certainly do live in interesting times…

October 20, 2022

Shalom Chaverim (Dear Friends), The High Holidays for 5783 have come and gone, leaving me with the feeling that these past few weeks have been a lovely and reflective time (and maybe with a few extra pounds too!). Lori and I have now passed the six-month mark here in our new community. We are very excited that our son Noah will be going on a Birthright mission to Israel in January, and that we will be visiting our daughter Danielle, son in law Colin, and granddaughter Emi Lou in St. Louis over the winter holidays.

October 13, 2022

Shalom Chaverim (Dear Friends), As the Jewish High Holiday season continues to unfold, my wife and I are appreciative of the very meaningful Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur services we’ve attended, as well as dinners with new friends and family here in our new South Palm Beach community.

October 6, 2022

Shalom Chaverim (Dear Friends), I am writing this week’s message to you on Erev Yom Kippur. Our first Yom Kippur in South Palm Beach County, it also marks 6 months since we moved to town. So much has happened in our lives since then, and I am reminded of what a joy it has been to make new friends and to contribute to the growth and success of our new community. Lori and I will also be celebrating our 34th wedding anniversary on October 9th. Where have the years gone?

September 29, 2022

Shalom Chaverim (Dear Friends), I’m writing this week’s Shabbat message on the second night of Rosh Hashana—from our guest bathroom. I have no choice, as it’s the only room in our house without windows, and Lori and I are riding out the tornado warning that is covering our area. It’s a good opportunity to reflect!

September 22, 2022

Shalom Chaverim (Dear Friends), I find it amazing that this is the last Shabbat before Rosh Hashanah 5783. This time last year, I could hardly have imagined that Lori and I would be Floridians again, happily settled here in South Palm Beach County and working on making our new house a home. A year ago, I had no way of knowing that I’d soon be CEO of the Adolph & Rose Levis JCC, which is really full circle for me, as I began my Jewish professional career running a swim program for the Westchester JCC when I was in college, and spent a year as the Teen Director of the Riverdale YM-YWHA. At that time, I aspired to become the head of a JCC. Many years later, here I am, and I couldn’t be happier. Life can take some interesting twists and turns, and that was certainly the case for the Haberer family in 5782.

September 15, 2022

Shalom Chaverim (Dear Friends), We are now just 10 days away from celebrating Rosh Hashanah and the year 5783. On the home front, Lori and I are now in our beautiful home here in South Palm Beach County for 5 months, and our current project is a backyard renovation that includes chipping out our swimming pool. This project is both terrifying and exciting, as at the moment, the yard looks like something from the surface of the moon.

September 8, 2022

Shalom Chaverim (Dear Friends), This has been a whirlwind week for us. Lori and I left for New Jersey on Friday for our niece’s wedding. Unfortunately, the weekend turned upside down when we learned of the sudden passing of Lori’s aunt, one day before the wedding and the morning of the rehearsal dinner. We managed to keep the sad news from the bride and groom until after the wedding, which was a wonderful and lovely simcha. Sadly, the next day we attended the funeral and first day of shivah. This topsy-turvy weekend was an example of what a rollercoaster life can truly be.

September 1, 2022

Shalom Chaverim (Dear Friends), You are receiving this Shabbat message on September 1st, which truly blows my mind. That means that we are a few days away from Labor Day, and just 10 days away from my 5 month anniversary as CEO at your Adolph & Rose Levis Jewish Community Center (Levis JCC). Things are busy, and, as it always seems to do, time is flying by! In our “down time,” my wife Lori and I are watching “House of the Dragon,” which so far seems promising, as we both loved “Game of Thrones.”

August 25, 2022

Shalom Chaverim (Dear Friends), My wife Lori and I just recently finished season 2 of “Beauty Queen of Jerusalem” and really enjoyed binging that series. Now we are onto season 4 of West World. I’d love to hear from you what you are watching these days. Don’t be shy to hit the reply button!

August 18, 2022

Shalom Chaverim (Dear Friends), Now in our 5th month here in South Palm Beach County, my wife Lori and I continue to settle into our new community and continue to acclimate to our new roles: mine here at the Adolph & Rose Levis Jewish Community Center and Lori working remotely for a law firm in Phoenix. In our spare time we continue to make our new house in Boca Raton into our home. Impact storm windows, pavers and barn doors among other construction materials are the talk around our dinner table these days. This week we will receive our second overnight guest when Lori’s older brother comes to visit.

August 11, 2022

Shalom Chaverim (Dear Friends), Florida in August! Outside it’s hot, humid, sticky, and uncomfortable, but things are heating up in a much more positive way inside our new space at the Adolph & Rose Levis Jewish Community Center. It is so nice to see a full parking lot, even on a Wednesday night after 8:00 pm! In addition to all of the wonderful Levis JCC programming happening, we have also been welcoming guests to our new space.